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Dec 2009
10:30 AM EDT
   

Guys.

I think god works in strange ways. you know why i think so? because when the whole world tells me to go after this 19 year old who has constantly flirted with me and i will add that he is friends with my sisters boyfriend he is the guy i always find myself crying over. Recently i was cheated on and i have been looking for someone who would understand that and i really thought it was him. So, many things we've said to each other that made it seem that him and i would maybe work. He called me beautiful instead of hott, he always i.ms trying to catch my attention but, he flirts with my friend amanda too. I know what you're thinking - WELL OBVIOUSLY, if hes flirting with your friend that hes a total manwhore. Yes people i am aware of that but, when he flirts with her its more of a "i wanna fuck around with you attitude". But..when hes talk to me it's more of a deep conversation where its like he has respect for me. I really dont know. So, anyways how i found out he was like this was last night while we were sitting inside the place where he worked. His friend said to him "Man, you gotta stop tryna get wit all these girls." and my heart dropped. you know that feeling in your chest like you wanna cry and scream and your so mad? Well, that was running through my body. So, what shocked me the most was his response "They dont care." Like he has NO respect for girls. So, then�i think�back to all the conversations we've had....and i just sat there and looked away and i was just silent. What more could i do? Im so sick of getting hurt. That pain is just so overwhelming it affects everything and not having anyone to confide in when the rest of the world was against you when YOU yourself was the victim it hurts..I remember every night for the past 2 and a half weeks i cried myself to sleep. I couldnt be alone, or that pain would just overwhelm me like, i couldnt even control myself. None, even gave a shit all they did was talk about me and how being depressed was STUPID?.. When i say that human beings are disgusting and vile im not lying. theyre so vindictive(sp?) and selfish and so ignorant that all they think about is themselves and they find ways to bring people down out of jealousy or maybe just because theyre hateful people. But then that leaves the 11% of the world that care about other people and are so understanding and good. I wish we could just unite because i know that that would be pure peace. Anyways, so i always get these vibes from people, you know? like if they were bad people or good people or�maybe a misunderstood person like myself. So, the vibe i got from James, well truth is i never really cared what vibe i got just loved him he was so amazing i just found myself liking him and didnt care what vibes i got. So, back to the situation, a few nights ago he told me about his ex. How she used him, cheated on him, and she hurt him. That reflected on how he said 'they dont care' like he wanted to get back on girls for how how much hurt he felt? If you could understand that. Maybe, he was still hurting inside and getting with girls made him feel better or better yet that he tried to take that pain away or make it subside like the pain i had that hurtful pain. Sometimes, i understand people well thats a lie ALL THE TIME I UNDERSTAND PEOPLE. I understand how they act, what resulted to them acting like that. My fear is that im wrong maybe Amanda was right 'hes 19! what do you expect?' but, if you've been cheated on..wouldnt you have learned already??.. I dont know.�i am so confused sometimes i dont even know what im saying. UGHHHH. Lets see what happens in the future, i might as well stay away from him. Its the best thing to do..right?

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  • Username: xBabyFayce
  • Gender / Age: Female, 29
  • Location: USA - New York
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    About Me: Most people know me by Briana. I was born on April 5th, 1995 making me 14 years old(: I am by far one of the nicest people you will ever come accross, and also more real than most people out their in the world. I used to have a lot of friends and always surrounded myself with different people, but I've come to learn that mostly everyone will let you down and screw you over at some point in time because their either jealous of you or their just two-faced. People I have claimed to be a "best friend" have hurt me beyond belief and are too immature to walk next to me. I no longer have a best friend. I have a few friends that are actually true friends, and I know will be there for me when I need them most. I dont really need anyone else, I dont have time for another let down. I have a big trust issue due to many things that have happened to me this year, it has led me to not believe what most people say and I dont open up to most people. I dont like my kindness to be used for granted. I am probably 60% of the world who actually admits their wrong. Everyone now a days cannot keep secrets if their life depended on it and always start a rumor that isnt true because they're bored with their pitty lives they call a life. Obviously, i would care less what people think of me because your opinion of me isnt needed. It's so pathettic how people can change over a short period of time. I really wish most everyone could grow up out of their child like minds, but that will never happen. Those people obviously need a reality check. I just love when people can be themselves and not worry about what other people are saying. It takes so much gut to actually be yourself now days because everyone is so judgemental. Being different is a good thing remember that. I really dont care about alot of people, theyre a waste of time, but I will give anyone a chance to be apart of my life. Once someone has let me down, theyre dead to me. I am nice until you piss me off, then I can become the biggest bitch and you'll regret making me mad. off, then I can become the biggest bitch and you'll regret making me mad. If you ask my opinion on something I will tell you what I think straight up and I dont care if it offends you. If you need my advice on anything im always here.

    Interests: Psychology,Music,Dancing,Walking around at night,Reading,Being alone sometimes, etc.

    Favorite Music: Adaline,Akon,All time low,Benny Benassi,Between the trees,Beyonce,Birdman, The black eyed peas,The black ghosts, Blue Foundation,Bob dylan,Boys like girls, Britney spears,Cascada,Cassie, Chris brown,Ciara, Cobra starship,Coldplay,Common, Daddy Yankee,Dashboard confessional, David banner,Demi Lovato, Desert rose band,Disney,Drake,The dream, Ed Bruce,Eddie Rabbitt,Eminem,Fabolous, Flo-Rida,Franz ferdinand,The fray, Goo goo dolls,Hadouken, Hannah Montana,Hawthorne Heights,Hellogoodbye, Hot Rod,Imogen heap,Infant sorrow, Jace Everett,Jackson 5,Jason Derulo,Jay-z, Jay sean,Jermih,John legend, Jordin sparks,Juice newton,Kanye west, Katy perry,Kelly clarkson,Keri hilson,Ke$ha, Kid cudi,Kings of leon,Kris allen, Kristina debarge,Lady gaga,Landon pigg,Linkin park,LMFAO,Mariah carey,Mario, Merle haggard,Metro station,MGMT, Michael jackson,Mickey gilley,Muse, New Boyz,The Outfield,Owl city,Paramore, Phil Collins,Pink,Pitbull, Pussycat dolls,Rihanna,Rob thomas, Samuel E. Wright,Savage,Schuyler Fisk, Sean Kingston,Seether,Evanesence, Selena gomez,September,Shakira,A skylit drive, SNL,Snow patrol,The spill canvas,T-pain,T.I, Justin Timberlake,Takingbacksunday, Taylor Swift,The maine,Tiffany giardina,Tila tequila,Tokio hotel,The veronicas,Whitey shafer,Wisin & yandel,Yeah yeah yeahs,3oh!3,

    Favorite Movies: I cant think of any right now. But, i love movies. just not scary movies with zombies.

    Favorite Television: MTV,The-N(Teennick),Disney.

    Favorite Books: Inkheart,Inkspell,Inkdeath,Twilight,New moon, & more.

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