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SHIRLEYXU's Interests:
About Me:
teaching in medical schools in the past 20 years
Interests:
1)brainstorming with my 9 year old son; 2)sharpenning my husband mind by arguing with him when necessary; 3) loyal funs of Liu Xiang
Favorite Music:
I want to spend my life time loving you
Favorite Movies:
Gone with the wind
Favorite Television:
第一财经,
Favorite Books:
All books by Charles Dickens