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Mar 2010
9:17 PM EDT
Is it cheating?
Yesterday I found out the wonderful news that my fiance has been flirting via e-mail with one of our coworkers. They've told each other that they find each other attractive and that they turn each other on. They've been e-mailing each other for a week now..my fiance decided to end it because he felt bad.
I'm devastated because 1) he betrayed my trust 2)He did this at the office where we both work while I was on maternity leave;I'm going back to work in a week 3) they were sloppy so now ppl know that they've been emailing.
He keeps arguing that it was wrong but it wasn't cheating because he didn't sleep with her but to ME that's a form of infidelity. When you desire someone else other than the one u are with and u tell that person u desire them then u are starting the process of cheating....u are opening the doors for something more.�
I'm so hurt I'm with my baby girl and I kicked him out because he disgusts me. I've done everything in the book to spice up our sex life after the baby and because he was "bored at work" & "needed to feel wanted" again he justifies what he did...I think it's wrong what they did....they disrespected me and he was unfaithful to me...What do u think? How would u react? Is he right or am I right?
Plz Help@!
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- 06:48 AM - 09/21/2010
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I'm 21 years old and I'm a university student majoring in accounting. I'm in a relationship right now where I'm the happiest I've ever been in my life. I truly have no doubt in my heart that this is the man that I want to marry because he completes me in every way. My only problem in this relationship has always been my bfs past. My mind is always going back to his past and comparing the love he felt for them to the one he feels for him. My insecurity has led me to believe that I'm not his 1st choice that he's with me because his "love" left him behind...it was 5 years ago but still the thoughts are there..hopefully through journaling I can get this feeling out of my heart so that our relationship can get stronger.
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I love reading whenever I actually have the time. One of my fav authors is Jodi Picoult. I'm a big Harry Potter fan but unfortunately I haven't gotten around to finishing the last book eventhough I started a year ago.. I love my nintendo Wii and I can't wait for more games to come out. I love to work out 4 times a week because it helps me release my stress and feel good about myself.
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Ashlee Simpson, My Chemical Romance, Jessica Simpson, Daughtry, All American Rejects, Simple Plan, Plan White Ts...and the list goes on
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Sweet Home Alabama, How to Lose A Guy in 10 Days, Grease, Crazy Beautiful, Beaches, What Dreams May Come, Dirty Dancing, Man on Fire, and Trison and Isolde.
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Brothers and Sisters, Desperate Housewives, Greys Anatomy, One Tree Hill, and FRIENDS!! Everybody Loves Raymond, I Love Lucy, King of Queens, My Wife and Kids.
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