No longer will I pursue guys. I will let them do all the chasing, all the hunting or whatever other word that could be used to describe what they do. Not only is it stressful and tiring trying to get the guy - most likely if you are doing all the persueing,they wont want you anyways! I know the guy I would like, but instead of throwing myself at him, i will give him subtle hints that i am very much so interested in him - and if he doesnt take the hints, he is either too dumb to get them or just not interested in me. Either way, I guess its his loss (not to sound cocky, but its so true!) The thing is, im not a player or a slut or anything like that. But I like to keep my options open and Im not too sure if that is good or bad. I dont want to give any wrong impressions or say the wrong things or anything!! I want to make good impressions and say good things, and make him smile and everything. I just dont know how hard it is gonna be to get me to work up the courage to do whatever it is i plan on doing. i dont even know.