i feel so stupid and you know why it's because my son has a girl friend and that even sounds stupid. but realy it's becuase he is growuing up fast and i feel like he's slipping away from me almost like my job is almost done and it's time to let go but i dont want to becuase he's still my baby to me always will be he's only 14 and i think he's far too young to have a girlfriend theres plenty time for that when he's older but as always whatever we say they just try harder to do the opposite i'm sure i am not the only parent to feel like this but it's hard when you only have one kid because they become the center of your world .i know i have to let him have his own life but he's just too young for all this stuff yet .and i want him to my self a while longer .