Phyl's Flashes

Before I can answer that question I need to start by asking, "What do I expect of myself?"

I have a list of expectations!

�to be happy

�to�take care of myself and stay healthy

�to keep learning new things

�to be generous not selfish

�to be honest with myself and others

�to take the risk for love

�to remain faithful

�to love my kids no matter what

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I think that covers the deeper expectations and then there are the superficial ones:

�I expect�myself to exercise everyday, shower and dress nice,�do my�hair & make up. In other words I expect myself to get it together everyday.�

�I expect to make the bed and clean up all messes everyday.

�I expect that I will be there if my family needs me for whatever they need.

�I expect that I will not break any laws for any reason.

�I will not let anyone speak of bigotry in my presence.

�I will help you in anyway I can.

That seems like a good start, off hand I can't think of anything else.

So if I expect these (and probably more) from me, I in turn, expect the same from others.

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