Lor,
Are you also going to ask me if I'm mad at you?
Have you had enough time to think?
If you ask me can you hear what I might say?
It won't be that bad, you can trust me. I've had time to think, and my emotions have settled. I can see past them, they aren't going to rule my words.
I wish we could have a true dialog about your absence that day. I believe there is a deeper reason than the one you gave us. I believe that this is an opportunity for you to grow and learn if you want to. You have to ask us though, we can't insist.
Bear has accepted your apology and if that's where it stops then so be it - he speaks for me too. We'll all have to go forward from here and I won't be the one to�bring it up.
For us to force�a dialog with you guys could bring out a truth that could be too much for all of�us to handle.�
It's possible that a huge stinkie elephant has just entered the room and we'll just have to ignor it.�