My "highly guarded" phone # somehow ended up in W's. hands. He called me today and he was civil. I am going to talk to him on Saturday...I am nervous and don't know how it is going to turn out. I told him this was not a reconciliation talk. It is just a talk to explain our points and discuss what we need to do as the next step. I am hoping that this can be done sans lawyer cost but we will see how amicable he wants to be. I want nothing...he can have the house and all that is in it. I can replace all of that. I just want it to been done so that the healing process can begin and we can both be out of limbo.