I am getting married at the end of the year. Iam really very new at this so coming up with what to say at first is going to be a challenge, but there after it should fly... Anywho, I am getting married at the end of the year and my question is how do you know your ready? Or does anyone feel that you should shape yourself up for marrige? What if the groom thinks that way, but the bride doesn't? All Iam saying is this...even though is not until November..What do you do with the pressure until then? When we argue now its, well we are not getting married..Why is the pressure all on me??